Marie Vincent Costa
August 13, 1927-March 3, 2015
I was in the process of writing a follow- up on "" when I received this news. I could not pass up the opportunity to share it.
My thanks to Arlene Gouveia whose photograph below is even more precious now that it graces this page. She alerted me to this passing. Marie Vincent is the head majorette in front of the Village Drill Team in this photo taken in the late 30's or early 40's. Moreover, the house behind them is her family home, the home ofJoseph and Hilda Vincent on School Street in the Village.
It is not often that we are afforded this type of remembrance linking the story of a Village native through to the point of her passing. I am honored to be able to do this. Whoever wrote the obituary did so with such love that it profiles this woman perfectly.
I knew this family so it means much to me.
I knew this family so it means much to me.
Here is an expert from her this Obituary
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/theday/obituary.aspx?n=marie-costa&pid=174327482
Niantic, CT.- Just as she marched as a majorette down School Street and carried the statue of Blessed Mary ahead of the parade bound for St. Anthony's Church, Marie Vincent Costa passed away on March 3, 2015 and smiled her distinctly beautiful smile at what now lay ahead.
Born on August 13, 1927, Marie grew up in Taunton, MA, eldest child of Joseph and Hilda Vincent, and sister to Joseph T. Vincent and Richard Vincent and sister in-law Dolores Vincent of Taunton.
She will be remembered with love and admiration by her family and the many close friends she made throughout her lifetime, including Mary Minerva Tinto of St. Augustine, Florida, her lifelong dearest friend and confidant, and the "daily Mass ladies", of St. John's Parish in Old Saybrook, CT.
She will also be remembered for her amazing pies at family gatherings and for that steadfast commitment to "straightening up" the Church after Mass at St. John's.
After earning her Master's in Education from Bridgewater State Teacher's College, she married Antone Robert Costa of Dighton. and headed across the country for the next 25 years, making sure that her Air Force family always experienced the comforts and security of home, even when home meant growing up in 9 different states.
She is fondly remembered as teacher, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother and great-grandmother. For her grandchildren she lovingly filled a large green cookie tin with endless batches of cookies, which surely shall never be matched in taste.
She was always the last to sit down to eat at the table as she tirelessly prepared the meals of many family get-togethers.
Her grandchildren say they will never forget the many fun outings, the m&m's, the times she would warm their cold noses with fuzzy 1970's door knob covers, and " we would never have known the impact of a red sweater on the rest of our lives. Thank you for being the perfect Grandmother."
Marie grew up to be a true Village wife, mother and grandmother and friend. Her description fits those loving avos from the Village in those days.
What touches me the most is that in spite of living all over the country and finally ending up in Connecticut her wish was to lie at rest in St. Joseph's Cemetery at the foot of the Village.
Rest in peace, Marie, daughter of the Village
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For links to the post about the Village Drill Team: http://schoolstvillage.blogspot.com/2013/08/the-rhythm-of-another-village-memory.html
Then St. Anthony's processions: http://schoolstvillage.blogspot.com/2013/02/faith-of-our-villagxe-part-iii.html
Do they still do the processions? Living near the Our Lady of Lourdes parish on First Street for most of my life I remember these processions.
ReplyDeleteArlene Gouveia tells us that she went to the funeral. Seems Marie's favorite color was red. She asked people to wear red to her funeral...some did. I wish I had known this vibrant woman and shared her memories.
ReplyDeletenot sure if they do have these processions...hope they do!
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